Countryside Day Blog

If You Give a Child a Chore

If You Give a Child a Chore

July 15th, 2014
If you give a child a chore, she’s going to smile and ignore you. She’ll dance and play in the usual ways.   When you remind her she has a chore she’ll probably stomp to her room and shut the door. When she’s bored, she’ll ask to use the computer. Then she’ll want a snack.   When you say “no,” she will wonder if you are serious. So she’ll consider doing the chore. Then she’ll... READ MORE
There Have Always Been Bullies

There Have Always Been Bullies

July 7th, 2014
There was a time when bullies were easy to spot.  On playgrounds and sidewalks, in swimming pools and cafeterias, they were the biggest boys.  A “good bully” usually had at least one flunky on his left, one on his right, a few thugs skulking behind.  Bullies knew how to avoid teachers, throw a punch, identify weakness, and instill fear. Today’s bully could be a geek or a girl, an old-fashioned tough-guy, a fourth-grade kid with... READ MORE
Ordinary Genius

Ordinary Genius

June 30th, 2014
A genius possesses rare talents of the mind and heart.  They are usually awkward introverts, strange, muttering fellows who boil vast quantities of complex information down to one useful truth.  Stephen Hawking nestled the universe into a nutshell.  Charles Darwin explained the evolution of all life through the wizened smile of a tortoise.  Jonas Salk pondered millions of polio cells and created the tiny vaccination that rescued humanity. Parenting is not a competitive field, though... READ MORE
Four Red Flags

Four Red Flags

June 16th, 2014
Some parents will immediately find the four red flags useful and funny, those for whom the habits of the naughty child are already familiar. We know when our family train has run off the rails.  Reading the short list brings a brief pause, a “yes, indeed” deep breath.  We think of the children we love. We recognize ourselves.   “Emergency!” we quietly scream.  “Mayday!  All hands on deck!”   When parents spot a red flag,... READ MORE
Building Character: A  Father’s Day Memoir

Building Character: A Father’s Day Memoir

June 9th, 2014
On the field… In the years before soccer became one of the most popular sports for kids in the United States, my father coached high school boys.  He had played and coached football for years, but the politics spoiled the fun.  Soccer was a nerd sport – a few teams of kids too puny to play football, too short for basketball.  My dad loved it. He was the type of coach who never lost his... READ MORE
Faith in a Child

Faith in a Child

June 2nd, 2014
In the months before our spring wedding, my love and I camped, hiked or backpacked every weekend, most often on the southern branches of the Appalachian Trail.  Old trails led us to unexpected vistas, miles passed, sunlight faded, time stood still. Surprised by love, we needed that time to imagine our life together. One of those weekends, we left the trail early Sunday morning to walk around a lake that bordered a campground.  A congregation... READ MORE
A Bedtime Story for Parents

A Bedtime Story for Parents

May 24th, 2014
Several years ago, in the hurried hour before young families leave for school, a parent accidentally tipped her large, scalding mug of green tea down her four-year-old daughter’s back.  They spent the next two days in the hospital, treating a painful third degree burn that would eventually heal without scarring. When she returned to school after her stay in the hospital, Mary proudly displayed the bandages wrapped around her torso.  She told her friends how... READ MORE
Why Children Lie

Why Children Lie

May 22nd, 2014
Our Daughter The summer our daughter turned three, she made her first frienemy.  They had too much in common, too much time together and, I now realize, a fascination with manipulation. One bad day on the preschool playground, she said, her bossy friend told her they could play house or police.  If they played house, our mature daughter had to be the baby.  If they played police, our innocent daughter would have to go to... READ MORE
Considering Grit in Parenting

Considering Grit in Parenting

May 21st, 2014
The year I was born John Wayne accepted his only Academy Award, for his role in the blockbuster True Grit.  Tough guys were cool in 1969.  The little boys I played with in our neighborhood spent a lot of time imitating John Wayne, running through backyards wearing cowboy hats and slinging pistols.  We pretended our banana bikes were horses.  Jump ropes were rattlesnakes lurking in the bushes beside the driveway.  Teachers did not worry... READ MORE
When Teachers and Parents Share a Path

When Teachers and Parents Share a Path

April 1st, 2014
A genius possesses rare talents of the mind and heart. They are usually awkward introverts, strange, muttering fellows who boil vast quantities of complex information down to a simple, useful truth. Stephen Hawking fit the universe in a nutshell. Charles Darwin explained the evolution of all life through the wizened smile of a tortoise. Jonas Salk pondered millions of polio cells and created the tiny vaccination that rescued humanity. Genius and talent are not commonly... READ MORE

Countryside Programs

We offer a continuous program from 16 months through 6th grade — inculding an all year program option for Pre-K/K and elementary school. LEARN MORE

TODDLER — Ages 16 mos.-3yrs

PRE-K/K — Ages 3-6

LOWER ELEMENTARY — Ages 6-9, Grades 1-3

UPPER ELEMENTARY — Ages 9-12, Grades 4-6

SUMMER PROGRAMS — Ages 16 mos.-12 yrs., Toddler-Grade 6

ALL YEAR FULL DAY — Ages 3-12, Grades Pre-K/K-Grade 6